What is your opinion on the belief that one can change their life by changing their thoughts and having a positive mindset?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:30
Dr. Vikas who has Drishti institute for civil services said that since his parents were professors of Hindi ; so he did masters in Hindi and finally ended up as a director of that institute . He said that he had zero control over his destiny.
No !
“””So in a nutshell ; since it’s difficult to change one’s mindset from negative to positive; don’t expect your life will change”””
So it’s difficult for a poor person to think positive or change his thoughts 💭or go for aesthetics and self actualisation.
Thoughts And habits die hard.
ok dear we will be positive but first let me run my auto as I need to pay it’s rent !
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it means , oh my mother; I fell in love with such a female who turned out to be unfaithful and made such a flight and never returned to me””
Smearing urself with ashes like aghori sadhu’s or tantrics or yogis - is not the right way to become positive and experiences abundance and manifest all that u people unnecessarily crave for !
Can a cunning, shrewd and stingy fellow invoke supernatural, paranormal or transcendental powers ?
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He further says somewhere that had Ellon Musk been in Ethiopia 🇪🇹 etc where there is no such system of libertarianism; he would never have been Ellon musk .
””” Mai ne mai main ik shikra yaar banaya ; Ik udari aisee maree fir watni na aaya “””
just a tear of gratitude 🙏 or love for almighty is enough to bring unthinkable, rare positive changes in ur life .
And as far as I m concerned , I have written in my profile that I believe in one word “”destiny.”
“”kabir je jumped straight from unfulfilled basic physiological needs to self actualisation making mockery of MASLOW ‘s need hierarchy theory of motivation “”
Don’t think that if the book 📖 “” secret is Titanically successful; it’s ultimate truth””
But there were some greater souls than Buddha like Kabir who was perhaps an illegitimate child born of Muslim parents and brought up by Hindu family ( not too sure ). Such souls are already evolved at the time of birth because of previous birth spiritual efforts and experiences.
”” Don’t become gullible and please go for critical thinking when you are bombarded by “ manifestation through positive thinking “”
But through “” prayer 🙏 “ one can become 👑 king and it’s my personal experience.
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kabir je was a poor weaver and had a very ordinary looking wife but still knew that there is no difference between his wife and today’s miss world.
But for an ordinary poor man it’s impossible not to think about money, females etc etc etc
Whatever I m writing ✍️, it relates to Maslow ‘s need hierarchy theory as well which I presume the readers know. Still a crisp description. According to him without fulfilling basic needs one cannot move to higher level need of Aesthetics and self actualisation.
Which is better, a naked picture of some one you know or porn videos?
Without tasting few prettiest ; comely, enticing, buxom, bewitching, females in bed, one can’t know that beneath the smoothest skin is just stinking flesh, bones and elephantine dirt.
Without tasting or acquiring money, fame , a beautiful woman ‘s body ; Kabir knew there is not much difference between two state of affairs.
4 billion people don’t have a penny in their pockets and at least 10000 self proclaimed philosophers on social media are talking about manifestation of money or anything is possible in few days. ( bastards playing with emotions of innocent penniless humans )
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we all have a baseline of happiness. Those who win a billion dollars 💵 lottery; there happiness level comes down to baseline level within 15 days or a little more time. Why ?
“”one can change nothing without the will of god””
so this is fatalist philosophy and i do believe in it !
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Habits or what we call as thoughts are almost impossible to change ( only 1 to2 percent people can do this and that too if the mentor is spiritual and has supernatural, otherworldly powers to convince )
“”Please Don’t get fixated on the concept of Yoga and kundalini etc””
It’s not possible to be positive without having a clean 🧼 drinking water 🚰 or food 🥘.
since our upbringing or socialisation results in such a personality make up that once established , it’s beyond change( few exceptions out of millions )
shakespear, Bernard shaw, Bertrand Russel all were of the opinion that once we have certain kind of mind set , then it’s difficult to give up the cardinal traits of personality.
In his unbelievable lines he said
Is it common for girlfriends to have close male friends who are single and not related to them?
Allport , in his trait theory , explained the concept of PROPRIUM . He explained in his theory of personality traits that first the hunter hunts for food but later on hunting becomes his habit or trait or thought process. Now he can’t give up hunting. So habits or thoughts don’t change.
yes it’s true “ agar aap kisee ko shidat se chaho to saree kayanat, apko us se milane mai lag jatee hai “”Shahrukh Khan got the credit and writer got ..?
But people here are missing the spiritual aspect.
“” adtan na jandian , je Katia bhorian bhorian “
But please ignore these fake babas on u tube and don’t get unnecessarily mesmerised by their great “”articulation skills”. They become billionaires and you stupids ( innocent ) lose 10000 rupees and ur parents starve and die due to lack of decent medical treatment.
Sit at home and pray and u will get everything in life”
our pineal gland is responsible for secretion of MELETONIN and if it gets secreted ; the bliss is thousand times more than orgasm ; but it doesn’t mean prayer 🙏 can’t open ur third eye or stimulate your pineal gland !
once infidelity, always infidelity “
please , those who are decently well read, don’t eat the bait thrown at u by social media.
when poverty comes at the door 🚪, love💕 flies out of the window.
By constantly feeding ur subconscious mind through positive self talk, through gratitude ; by writing everyday positive things; our subconscious mind can do miracles.
“””””So Shakespeare said that never trust him that hath once broken faith””””
So Buddha realised this as he had the best of everything and after enjoying all, it became too easy for him to leave all of it.
“yes, through CBT ( cognitive behaviour therapy ) one can change ones negative thoughts to positive ones but the change doesn’t last and relapse or old patterns of thinking come back”
Only after having a 7 course meal in a 7 star hotel; one realises that a road side restaurant ( dhaba ) was better( not always )
it means our habits die hard even if you cut urself.
can we change our lives through positive thoughts and positive mindset ?
so dr Vikas is conveying that we are creatures of destiny.
Bulleh shaw ; a great fakir tried to enlighten us through his unmatched poetry that habits or thoughts are difficult to change.
But yes please read it carefully .
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only after sitting behind the wheels of a luxurious 🚘 car , one realises that an auto’s journey is more enjoyable as u interact with strangers and many times encounter some philosopher or a noble soul which is not possible in a lonely car.
if you and me don’t get water for 3 days, all positivity will fly away like a unfaithful 🦅 bird.
only a full purse 👛 makes the mouth 👄 speak
why the universe will conspire to unite you both with all it’s might ?
On social media the whole world of influencers are shouting at the top of their voice that u can manifest anything by changing ur thoughts.
people like Kabir are beyond time and space and such people are incomparable and perfect.
Because ur love is pure, ur heart and soul is pure and ur final intentions are extremely pious.
god is just waiting for ur only single tear and you will or can become master of this world.
yes one should be a realist but not a moronic optimist.